Showing posts with label Discussions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Discussions. Show all posts

Saturday, August 10, 2019

VEDA Day 10: Black Romance and it's New Queen


I had some thoughts about that new Jasmine Guillory article from  ZORA.  I wasn't the only one; so many on twitter also had opinions that they shared and it spawned a bit of a recommendation thread all over the place. With yesterday also being National Book Lover's day it didn't go down well that this young woman and her team seem intent on erasing black women writers from the romance sphere.

It's not the first article that has tried to frame black romance as something that hasn't existed until Jasmine came along and really it's on the authors of the article to do better research. It is also on Jasmine and her team who have final say that an article shouldn't erase the works of the women who came before her to center her as "shero of black romance". We don't have to live like this, we don't have to pit black romance authors against each other, there is plenty of room at the table that many of the African American authors had to build for themselves since big publishing houses didn't seem to believe they would have selling power. Many of the names we know as staples did sign with big houses but they also self-published and created their own publishing imprints as a way to get the stories they wanted out there, not just the ones the gatekeepers would sign up for.

Imprints like Arabesque, Kimani and Dafina having been publishing African American centered stories for decades and for this little author of 4 books to come along and act as if Sandra Kitt hasn't existed and been making movies from her works for years is absolutely bullshyt.  We could sit here and go through the history of African American authors who have created different lanes for all of us to read in, from the women who when they realized big publishing houses weren't going to create the books they wanted to create their own like the 'street lit' sub-genre  of romance that focuses in on the inner city and impoverished men and women seeking love/ revenge and sex; because everyone's stories deserved to be heard.  Several publishing houses including Triple Crown Publishing by Vickie Stringer came out of that so did many well-known authors Omar Tyree, Sistah Souljah and more.

Romance in all its nuances has existed since dime novels were considered salacious in the 18th and 19th century.  Black romance has been shaped by greats like Sandra Kitt, Beverly Jenkins, Donna Hill, Brenda Jackson, Francis Ray, Rochelle Alers, Terry McMillian, Toni Morrison and so many more.  These women have been putting pen to paper and writing about black love, black romance, and it's many varied outcomes. They have staying power as many have extensive catalogs and have been writing in this genre for decades.

It's disheartening to see this article and this moniker being thrown around without the consideration for the women and men who changed the genre to include people who look like them. From E Lynn Harris writing about on the down-low brothers to Kimberla Lawson Roby's books about Reverend Curtis Black, and the shenanigans that take place in the black church, to the historical novels that center black women post Civil War written by Beverly Jenkins. And not to mention all the Christian Romance novels out there, the paranormal like those written by LA Banks (May She Rest in Power); and the smorgasbord of contemporary and interracial romance authors out there.  From Ace writers to the erotica like Robin Covington and Zane.

I personally have grown up in this genre, I started by reading a Nora Roberts novel my aunt gave me and then I found Sandra Kitt and I haven't ever looked back.  In high school I was reading Omar Tyree books and discussing them with my classmates, as a sheltered teen, I knew nothing about street life but these books made me feel seen as a kid growing up in the city. I remember sharing the Coldest Winter Ever with my girlfriends from my freshman year in college. My sophomore year I loaned out my Omar Tyree collection to a cousin and never got them back, but I remember reading and loving so many of the works that I had to replace them. I still to this day remember how I reacted to a twist in Milk in My Coffee, like still a shocker.  His book Leslie was so good and I was hooked.

The first time I read a Beverly Jenkins book and realized she was sharing real history?? That she had bibliographies in the back that I could use to go down the rabbit hole of black history??? I was hooked. Seeing Disappearing Acts by Terry McMillian then discovering it was a book?? How Stella got her groove back?? Seeing a black woman on Oprah talking about Jamaica and she wasn't Jamaican?? Loving the heck out of the adaptation with Angela Bassett?? ( I mean that romance imploded but still we got some good books and television out of it). Black women have always been the ones to center our stories, our pain, our history and our journeys. Lynn Emery writing of black women heiresses trying to make it in the corporate world.

Don't come in here and piss on all of us and tell us it's raining. To be a Queen includes more than being the flavor of the moment. It's staying power, it's having a range in the books you can write, with different characters and their journeys. We all know they will end up together but how they get there is what makes a great writer. Give me the emotions, don't just waltz in here and pretend that because you say it it's true.

I state it in my video and I want to touch on it even more here. Not only is it erasure of the black women and men who have opened up the genre for her to be able to come in and make these damn comments, it's also a way to center stories, not about black women at all. It feels like the way her press is being handled that black readers aren't the target audience, we are the 'given', they seem to believe we are already going to be reading her works because she's a black romance writer. UGH no, that's not how that works. The interviews and the way she's being marketed which include ignoring the presence of the black women who have been around before her is a total white gaze marketing. It appears (to me the reader) like she's not really marketing her books for us black readers but for white readers who want a little 'flavor/ color/ sassiness' in their romance without having to actually read 'black romance'.

Now again I understand that this is just my perception, but as someone who buys romance books, and I like to believe have a little sway in what others read as well, then you would want to make sure we aren't the ones you are slighting. I have no dog in this fight I'm not a writer, aspiring or otherwise, I like working in the healthcare field but romance is my escape, and seeing women who have helped me without even knowing it being treated like chopped liver, pissed me all the way off. So here I am participating in the callout. Fix the way your press is shaping your campaign as a writer, stop erasing black writers who have helped to shape the genre you get to come in and write in.

Jasmine you and your team need to do better.

Share in the comments down below your recommendations for romance readers my loves and let's continue the discussion.
As always
Happy Reading


Saturday, September 2, 2017

A Brief Discussion about Social Media & Authors...

So let's chat about the bullshyt I saw on twitter the other day.  Now I could sit here and really articulate why this is a fresh hot pile of dog excrement, but I'm really in my feelings and I'mma just say this like a pissed off Jamaican Bronx girl, so sorry not sorry if my language offends you.  This isn't my doctoral thesis bitch, it's a rant .
The tweet that started it all.

Earlier this week I signed on to twitter that I haven't been on in months!! And the first tweet I see is a subtweet about an author writing a post on the RWA website.

She tried to share the post but because you have to be a member it wouldn't show.  After a few tweets she names and shames the awful author who dared to write some racist post and to my disappointment but not surprise it was one of my **now former** favorite authors Linda Howard. Thanks to Ann Aguirre this bitch will no longer be getting any of my dollars.


I cannot even begin to explain how saddened, disappointed and just over it I am.  I literally own every single title she's ever written, I even have two of them that I hate on my shelves because I wanted to own the catalog.  I was disappointed by the last book that came out and even have a review for it. I featured her on so many of my favorite book lists, and have several videos with her books in them, now I'm not going to take them down because that's who I was in that moment.  I'm not going to throw away her books because I've already given that bitch my dollars, and tossing them isn't going to hurt her.  I really want to toss them but I have such good memories of the stories that I'm kinda torn on getting rid of them; I feel like it's going to hurt me more than her.

Now normally if this was a man who had been accused of being racist or a pedophile or even someone who excuses those things, I would have vocally tossed them and shared why and been happy.  I would have never thought twice about it because this is how you fight back against the patricachy.  You give 'em the finger and move on.

I feel like sometimes we give women a pass; because she's a woman and all of the bullshyt stereotypes that we believe goes with that *i.e she didn't really mean it, she's sorry when she's really not sorry, she's misguided she's changed now, to hate her for being INSERT TERRIBLE THING HERE is being antifeminist, it's woman bashing*; like Taylor Swift loves to do, she's about to play the "I'm a white woman being attacked even though you have receipts to show just how shitty a human I am, save me I'm just so fragile" victim card and there will be people willing to jump to her aid.  

I'm Black, a Witch, a woman, an immigrant, the daughter of immigrants, the sister of a Queer woman writer, and have three beautiful siblings that are also artists and are black as hell.  The f*ck I look like supporting her??  I've always said that I would rather people wear their KKK hoods and let me know who they are upfront so I know not to waste any of my valuable time on them; had I not signed onto twitter I would have never seen this and would have continued to support her work, and y'all would have been looking at me like "ok girl" .  Like I tried googling this and nothing popped up.  I feel like there needs to be a list, so I can know to save myself the trouble.  And no,  I cannot separate the artist from the art, because in this care the "artist" creates/writes art that is exclusionary and doesn't believe I and others that look like me deserve to be in the same space as her.

I have so many feelings. I'm glad so many women trashed her on the thread and on twitter. I have a whole new slew of women to now read and admire.  I've started following even more authors on twitter than before.

I have to say I loved Beverly Jenkins', KM Jackson's and Brenda Jackson's response to her old hateful rhetoric. Made me glad I read, love and support their works and made me happy I had just purchased most of Brenda's catalog that I didn't already own.  Next year I'll buy all of Beverly's that I don't currently own.


Of course, there will be few real consequences to her being hateful because she's prolific, she's been around for decades and let's face it she's white in America and because this isn't something someone not in the book community will know about.  Even though we've trashed her words many more people were silent on the matter and that's what is so disappointing.  It's knowing some of them are too savvy to come right out and support her, but in their homes and private spaces they believe what she says.

This is why I don't separate the artist from the art. This is why as much as a I love MJ, I no longer listen to his music, why R. Kelly never gets played at any party I'm at. Why I will never read so many other books by authors who have let the world know they are anti LGBTQ rights, or they are chauvinists, or practice misogynoir like so many black male authors *I'm looking at you Tyrese* or they are just plain out and out racist, or they aide in pedophilia like Marion Zimmer Bradley.  The need to worship artist and have them on a pedestal even when they sully that pedestal is something I can never understand.

We treat so many of these people like gods and ignore their flaws even if those flaws hurt others as long as they don't hurt you or yours. You will support/fight/stan and troll the internet and the damn world for them.  Supporting the artist, giving them money supports their habits behind the scenes, and I can't be a part of a scene where you take my money but want to make sure there are no spaces where non white cis/non-cis gendered writers can feel comfortable or be promoted on the same level as you.

I guess I have answered my own question then. I know for a fact after today she'll never see a dime of my money and I will never promote her works E.V.E.R.   Just do me a favor, if you're a racist author let me know so I can save my time, money and efforts because I'm really getting sick of this shyt.

Let me know your thoughts, Are you surprised?? So many of my author friends weren't surprised she said these things, which made me wonder what else she been saying over the years.  Share in the comments any authors you think I should avoid because they are any of the above listed non starters for me.

Thanks for stopping by and reading my rage post.  Post was edited for issues and grammtical errors by my lovely sister,then I went back and added things so if there are errors blame me. LOl.
 

Tuesday, April 4, 2017

2017 Sexual Assault Awareness Month TBR

Hi my loves,

We are still on the topic of April being sexual assault awareness month and I wanted to pick these books up and share with you my journey through them.  I got most of my list from The Teen Librarian Toolbox's list of books about Consent, Sex and our teens.

These are the books from my shelves dealing with this month's awareness topic: Sexual Assault and Consent.

I have read a few from the list over the years and you can find the links here:



  • Easy Tamara Webber
  • Live Through This Mindi Scott
  • One Weekend Girlfriend and Second Chance Boyfriend by Monica Murphy
  • Wait For You by J Lynn
  • Speak by Laurie Halse Anderson

  • And these are the ones on my shelves that I want to get read for the month:

    • The Mockingbirds by Daisy Whitney
    • What happens next by Colleen Clayton
    • What we saw by Aaron Hatlzer
    • Just Listen by Sarah Dessen
    • A Deep Dark Secret by Kimberla Lawson Roby
    • A Natural History of Rape by Randy Thornhill and Craig T. Palmer  ** This wasn't recommended but I recently picked it up at the local library book sale right before the month started and thought this is perfect.**

    That's it, those are the books on my radar for this topic and these are the ones I own, there are plenty more out there and if you have read any please feel free to share in the comments down below and we can talk about them.  Thanks so much for stopping by and

    Have a great reading week


    Saturday, August 29, 2015

    Book Discussion: Romance As A Genre, Why is it looked down on??



    I'm no scholar, but I really am tired of how people are looking at romance on booktube, so I decided to write my thoughts down then put them in a video.

    I truly do believe that part of the reason people look down on romance, is because of misogyny, it's given a bad rap because people don't believe that romance is a 'real' genre, or that the woman that read romance, are lonely women without men, and that the women who write romance are simply living out their fantasies, because they are also lonely women, And while that may be true for some women reading the books, it's not true for a majority.. Even if it is true, that doesn't make the book any less than (yeah I know there are some really shit books out there, I'm looking at you the story inappropriate insensitive racist books, we're mostly talking about the books that aren't a waste of trees and ink).  No one looks at spy books written by men and telling them it's not realistic or only pathetic men will read these.

    It's really starting to get on my nerves also when people look down on romance then turn around and talk about how much they love Pride and Prejudice, or Romeo & Juliet.  Yeah How you love those, but don't love romance??
    Meme gotten from here
    I express more in the video linked above, but here are the companies I mentioned: (None of which even know I'm mentioning them so...not a sponsored blog or vlog post)
    So that's what I think, What are your thoughts?? What do you believe is the underlying reason people hate on romance.  Share your stories of what people have said to you or what you thought romance is or was and let's keep the discussion going.

    Thanks so much for watching and reading and I'll see you guys tomorrow,
    Happy Reading whatever you love


    Thursday, April 23, 2015

    Monthly Theme: New Adult : My Favorite Authors So Far & Request For Some Recommendtions

    My Favorite New Adult Authors

    I've only just begun to really delve into the books that make up this genre, I have read some good, some bad, and dnf'd quite a few.   I'm here to share some of my favorites with you and request that you share some of  your faves with me in the comments so I can go ahead and read even more from this fast growing genre.

    One of the very first new adult books I ever read (not including the old school stuff, but the stuff that falls under the new genre title of new adult) was Rule by Jay Crownover, it was a sampler called Between the Covers and I was all over it, I loved me some Rule (check out my review). I then proceeded to gobble up the other books in the Marked Men series including Jet, Rome and of course at the time he was just on his way to the printer, but I begged and they let me be apart of the blog tour for Nash and of course then came Rowdy and now I'm breathlessly waiting until April 21st for Asa. yeah it's safe to say I LOVE Jay Crownover's writing. Oh and if you haven't checked out the men of the Point??? Yeah you're missing out because Bax is not a man to be missed.  His buddy just recently joined the crew and Race  is just amazing as well.


    My next favorite is Chelsea Fine. because man can she write an emotive story with wonderful plot twists and character growth.  Her books, Perfect Kind of Trouble and Best Kind of Broken are two of my faves from her.  I loved reading them and the characters are just so awesome that you can't wait to read and see where they are headed and boy she brings them some seriously good places.


    I've been a huge fan of Erin's writing for many years and when I saw that she was writing a new adult series I jumped at the chance to read from her and her  True Believers series?? Chile if you love new adult and haven't fallen in love with Jess then you're missing out big time!!  the series includes: True, Sweet, Believe, & Shatter

    Of course who can forget, Easy by Tammara Webber?? That book was one of the very first new adults I read and it made the genre for me.


    Then there was Knox who challenged the black and white lines I had about certain things and you just have to read to understand who and what and how amazing this story is.  Hard Knox by Nicole Williams.

    I've also read a few by Cassie Mae, and Jen Frederick that are worth mentioning, and of course Jennifer L Armentrout writing as J Lynn is amaze balls as well.

    These are the ones I have read so far, what are some others you can recommend??  Share down below so I can get some really good ones on the list.  Thanks so much for stopping by and commenting my loves. I'll see you tomorrow with another post as well.



    Sunday, April 5, 2015

    Discussion: What is New Adult?? This is What it Means to Me

    Discussion

    What is New Adult??New Adult (NA) fiction is a developing genre of fiction with protagonists in the 18–25 age bracket. St. Martin's Press first coined the term in 2009, when they held a special call for "...fiction similar to YA that can be published and marketed as adult—a sort of an 'older YA' or 'new adult'."  (taken from Wikipedia "New Adult Fiction article)

    Many of the top new Adult authors started as self published and got picked up by big name houses, including Tammara Webber, Cora Carmack, Collen Hoover, & Jamie McGuire.  

    For many this is a new genre, I, however feel this genre has been around for a while and only just got an official name.  When I was growing up the "mature young adult/ new adult" books were all the same section. Katherine Applegate wrote the Boyfriend and Girlfriends series which were high schoolers, and then the Ocean City series which dealt with college kids.  And yes, they discussed sex, waiting for the right time, interracial relationships, abuse, drinking, all of what is now covered in "new adult".  I'm happy that new adult is one of the fastest growing genres out there, but I also feel it means along with good stuff comes the trashy poorly written stuff.  (this happens with all genres when they grow too quickly).

    Everyone of course is going to define new adult how they want. Many authors have shared their ideas of the genre and what they want from it including a great article by Monica Murphy on What is New Adult, and another by Tammara Webber Will the Real NA Please Stand Up.  And those are just the ones I've read, I've seen tweets for other authors begging people to stop putting sex in where it doesn't belong (which makes sense if it doesn't further the plot why is it in there??) 

    Personally I love new adult that is well written because it takes on more than young adult does. Also the characters tend to be more mature and they are worrying about stuff I care about. I'm way too out of high school to care about some of the stuff kids care about, and now that I'm done with college and having to worry about finding a job, a life time partner, purchasing my first home and wondering about planning for retirement, I really don't care to travel back to high school, so for me new adult is that gap between adult romance that talks about having adult kids and divorce, and women finding themselves again. Like dude I'm no there yet, can we please have some happy before the bitterness??

    And right now new adult romance in particular is experiencing a great boom, but there are other sub genres out there.  And slowly they too are gaining popularity.  I'm personally looking forward to when paranormal new adult books become popular because then more of them will be published and it won't be such a hunt to find them.

    The only problem I'm truly having with new adult at the moment is the monotone of a lot of the stories.  As I said when I was reading Katherine Applegate or Linda A Cooney they were characters of color, those that were disabled (some where blind, some where in wheelchairs), but the characters were diverse. Now a days almost all the new adult books are about white kids (not that there is anything wrong with that) but umm what happened to the rest of us??  I love that in new adult difficult topics are being discussed and we get well rounded characters when the books are done right, so why then can't this be extended to characters of color?? In your worlds do Latinos not exist?? Did Blacks fall of the face of the planet, do immigrants not go to your schools?? Did you not have young men & women who were from diverse backgrounds?? Adopted, single families, gay parents, physically different?? I went to a small college and we had a girl who was covered in scars when she was a kid she'd been in an accident and was burnt, she was funny, and popular and dated (and ended up engaged) to a one of the most popular guys on campus.   We had a well loved DJ on the school radio who was in a wheelchair, if he threw a party in his room everybody was there.  We had students who were blind or almost blind, who participated in the international club, all kinds of kids from other countries attended and as I said it was a small school. So you're telling me in your books  (i.e your world) you don't have any of these diverse characters?? Why?? Is it shear laziness?? Or do you not feel like you can do them justice??

    What do you think of the discussion?? Clearly as I said not everyone is going to have the same definition of new adult. And there are "clean" new adult as well as full on raunchy new adult.  I know I kinda like my new adult somewhat in the middle I need there to be good plot along with the raunchy exploration.  As long as it's well written I'm down to read it.  

    If you have any recommendations please share down below, who are some of your 'gateway authors', some of your favorite authors and who should I avoid??  I'm also going to be sharing of the 'original' at least to me new adult authors and their series that I read and loved as a kid.  If you have any you can think of share down below please.  

    Thanks so much for stopping by and have a great one
    Happy Reading 


    Thursday, January 1, 2015

    New Year New Goals 2015

    Well hello there

    How have y'all been ?? Yeah I know I have sucked at this, but no more and no excises either.  Here are my no fuss resolutions or better yet the objectives of the blog this year

    1. Complete more reviews: not necessarily every book I read but certainly all the ones I have from BEA and publishers. 
    2. Do more discussion videos and posts on my channel and the blog because sometimes I want to talk about stuff that's not just a book review or a haul or wrap up.  
    3. Be more consistent especially in the fall which it seems to be the time I fail at blogging,
    4. Read more books from my shelves ( I'm participating in a few challenges which will help with this). 
    5. Participate in small book buying bans, so no more purchasing before I complete my Project 10 (Feb 1- June 28th ) Not counting Preorders
    6. Do my best to stick to my objectives
    7. Write more, so I can increase content
    8. Only do blog tours I really want to support and really be honest about the books, I haven't ever lied about my feeling of a book, but I feel I might have been a lot more lenient on books because I didn't want to be seen as someone who is too harsh. So being brutally honest but not hurtful, you know that balance we all attempt to strike each review, sometimes we win sometimes we fail.
    9. Quit being afraid of sharing my books, not just the ones that are popular but the ones that are odd, the ones from my faith, and just whatever I really want to share. 
    10. Attend BEA 2015 and any other conventions I can squeeze in.
    11. Clean up my Netgalley Reviews, with the goal of getting my review percentage close to or at the 80% marker.  Currently at 19%. I need to do 7 reviews a week for the next 53 weeks to complete it. 
    12. Plan, film and EDIT!! I'm great and planning and filming but I suck at editing, I need to plan my time in a way that allows me to edit and put up at least 2 videos per week for the new year. 
    And the most important one?? Have fun, because I was beginning to hate blogging for a while i hated having to formulate, to create and post then not have the views to match the hard work. I'm going back to writing this like I did in the beginning with the belief that it's a record of my feelings and ideas about certain books, that i just happen to share with others.  If the views come cool, if the numbers increase cool, but in all honesty I really just want an outlet for all my nerdy love of books.  

    So there you have it, those are my ideals of 2015. What are your objectives for 2015?? Any goals or resolutions you looking forward to??
    Happy Reading



    Saturday, November 1, 2014

    Where Have I been?? What's going on??

    Well I kinda quit without notice didn't I??  Believe me it wasn't intentional, I kept saying I would come back and write a post, but the words wouldn't come and the longer it went the worse it got. My sister is in her final year of college and had to take a step back because well crunch time, she's got a job, internship and school, books have taken a backseat.  She hasn't read anymore books since August.

    After the summer I felt burnt out. Seriously I haven't even been on my computer since August. Yes I said August,  I avoided email, i forgot about Netgalley and goodreads and I stayed far away from my feeds. I was burnt out. I was so done with books, book reviews, book tours, unsuccessful giveaways and just feeling really blue that a personal (unrelated to blogging) goal was once again unaccomplished.   I needed a mental health break.

    So I stopped reading, and i focused on my life, I tried vlogging everyday in august, then in october and now I'm trying to do Vlogidays, But really I was unmotivated, I didn't see my books as fun stories I wanted to enjoy but as obligations I needed to accomplish and I felt burdened.

    So I changed around my room, I changed my work schedule, my thoughts about books and my goals.  I began to refocus on my hobbies again, bringing back my love of the craft and crafting as a way to find myself back in the grove. I gave up my book buying ban because it really felt like I was suffocating; part of the joy I gain in being a book lover is the hunt for good books, the journey of finding a new author to fall in love with.

    Part of the reason I was struggling was the desire to read more diversely and discovering that my genres are very monotone.  How many new adult authors of color do you know?? Please for the love of the Goddess share down below with me because I'm desperate.  Looking at my bookshelves and realizing I have less than a dozen authors of  colors works was very depressing.  I love romance, but five or six authors is pretty effing abysmal.  I wasn't prepared for the serious lack of representation and it only depressed me more to realize how truly sad my shelves looked.  At the same time I felt guilty, I'm asking for more authors of color but I wasn't reading the authors that are being published because they aren't in my genre and I really hate swerving from my lane. I don't read christian fiction, I'm not a church goerer so I dislike stories with church as a big part in it, religion doesn't bother me in books unless it becomes like a huge battering ram they keep shoving at you, and unfortunately a lot of the romance for black women has church and religion as part of the huge focus. We aren't all christians you know.

    It's taken years to find my niche and to have to leave it to find authors of color was annoying, sad and even more depressing when I realized there were fewer than half a dozen who wrote anything I would be interested in. Even worse was reading some of their works and realizing I oculdn't deal with the religion aspect.   I found myself dreading reading and feeling guilty because I wasn't reading diversely.  Anyone can tell when you feel obligated and resentful towards something you aren't going to enjoy it so, I decided that a break was in order.  For me not to lose my love of books and the written word, I needed a step back.

    I have journeyed back to reading but I have now really clearly defined for myself what I will be reading and for the most part it hasn't changed and it other ways it has.  I'm going to finish out the year, finish reading the books I have and the ones I'm required to read.  Mostly I'm going to stay within my narrowly defined genres.  But I'm also branching out. I'm not a huge young adult reader, but I will read certain books like the ones by Mallory Blackman, those I won't necessarily review, but I'm going back to my personal loves, erotica, paranornal, but mostly romance.  I'm checking out authors I have never read before and I'm doing my best to expand, but I'm staying in my lane, no more reading to please others and show them how well versed I am based on the NYTimes list of books everyone should read,I'm reading what brings me joy, makes me happy and gives me a thrill.  I'm reading diversly, but it's going to be books and genres and things I care about.

    One of the things I let slip was my love of non fiction books written about and by authors of color.  I loved reading books about religion and it's place in peoples lives, I loved reading about the immigrant struggles and expereiences, i loved reading about other religions, about health and medicine, about history and midwifery. About herbs, and naturpathic medicine, about living, being and eating clean green and healthy.  Green archetucutre, whole living, being pagan, Buddhist and being an empath.  All of these I have left behind in the cycle of reading the latest and greatest books coming out ( hey if it works for others cool, but it clearly wasn't working for me anymore).  This desire to keep up with the joneses and be reading and reviewing all the newest books, it was a struggle and made reading not fun anymore, so now i'm stepping back and I'm doing what makes me happy.

     For the authors out there, I'm sorry but I won't be accepting anymore review requests, I have a huge pile to clean up first, then maybe by march I can look to other books.  Thanks for considering me though.

    Please know that from now on the books reviewed are going to be books I genui ely love and wanted to read, not just the ones I thought you wanted to hear about.  I have a lot of books I promised to read, so those will be up on goodreads and amazon, but fortunely for me even in my craziest requesting blitzes I stayed within my genres and I have a few I'm dying to get into.  I can't wait to share them with you.

    If that seems like something you would love to see, stick around, I have a bunch of books to share with you, maybe even a few giveaways. If not, then thanks for stopping by and have a great life.




    Thursday, August 7, 2014

    What is Romance?? A Definition & Example Post

    Recently when deciding to clarify what I was going to be doing on my Booktube channel, I came to the decision to create a video about what romance was. What I was going to read, review and share. I wanted to clarify for those who didn't know that Romance is an overarching umbrella under which many sub genres exist.  This is my idea of romance is., If you have something else in mind please do share.

    There are many sub genres including

    Romantic Suspense  with authors like Heather Graham, Linda Howard, Maggie Shayne, Lora Leigh, and Julie Garwood

    Paranormal Romance: Charlaine Harris, Laurell K Hamilton, Cheyenne McCray, Tanya Huff, Katie MacAlister, just to name a few.

    Erotica Romance which has several different sub genres of it's own. Some of my favorite authors are Sylvia Day, Maya Banks, Tiffany Reisz, Lily Harlem, Jory Strong, Zane, Shayla Black just to name a few.  Their categories vary but include:

    • Big Beautiful Women, 
    • Interracial Erotica,
    • Polyamouros Romance (romance with more than one love interest NOT CHEATING, but consensual multiple and multifaceted relationships) , 
    • BDSM themed novels, 
    • paranormal Erotica: Shapeshifters, and Witchs abound!!
    • Contemporary Erotica (happening in current time with mention of most of social media, or well known and understood vernacular being used as well) , 
    • Science Fiction Erotica (featuring time travel, alien planets, futuristic Earth and even other planets).  

    Historical Romance which includes the sub genre of Steampunk Romance.  A few authors include Amanda Quick, Julia Quinn, and Elisabeth Lowell,

    Dystopian Romance: These tend to be more of a sub category of SciFi Romance,   JD Robb

    Christian Romance: This romance is categorized with having the main protagonists wait until marriage to consummate their relationships, Amish Romance stories and books with a strong Church focus within them.

    New Adult Romance:  This subcategory is a new one; it's been gaining popularity recently even though before it was just considered regular romance and only broken down by it's content instead of the age of the characters, and it age of it's target audience.  It's mostly written with readers being between the age of 21-35, they tend to have characters who have recently graduated from college or are in their last year, attempting to find their way in the world.  Some characters haven't gone to college but the basic demographic is women and men who are trying to figure out what they want to really do with their lives.    Authors include: Erin McCarthy, Jay Crownover, Cora Cormack, J Lynn, Elisa Dane and many more.

    Contemporary Romance hot men and even better women, struggling to figure out their romance lives while juggling their expectations for life and how to make it in this modern world.  This is the broadest category and it even has it own sub genres including cowboy romance, men in uniform romance, 'paranormal' romance where psychics and witches exist along with ghosts.  Heather Graham, Brenda Jackson, Lynn Emery, Sandra Kitt, Robyn Carr, Brenda Novak, Nora Roberts are some of the few who are well known for these books.

    Interracial/African American/Native American Romance:  There are many book written that include interracial romance, including those by JJ Murray, Eric Jerome Dickey and many more.
    African American romance has it's own category and it's own sub-genres as well.  Brenda Jackson, Beverly Jenkins, Sandra Kitt, Lynn Emery, Zuri Day, Omar Tyree, Eric Jerome Dickey, Kinberla Lawson Roby, Terry Macmillan are just a few of the greats.

    The sub genres in AA Romance are vast and I'm only just beginning to explore, so I'm sorry that I don't have authors to recommend, but in 2015 that's going to change so be on the lookout for other videos and more discussion posts.

    These are just some of the categories and some of the authors in each.  Do you have some favorites?? Please share as I'm always looking for new authors.

    What do you think romance is?? Share in the comments and let me know.



    Monday, August 4, 2014

    Completing My Collections otherwise known as Book Haulin':: (VEDA Day 4)

    Here is today's vlog for VEDA otherwise known as Vlog Every Day In August.  I wanted to share some of the books that have been finding their way into my home and joining my read bookshelves. I love completing my collections.





    I mentioned before that I am a book collector. I have entire series by authors that I love. If I love them, then they are on the autobuy lists (this especially worked well because for years I worked in WaldenBooks *until they closed* and I used to get my books on great discount).


    Since I no longer work for a bookstore I keep a running lists of books missing from my catalog that I wish to get, and each year I try to get them.  I've promised myself that 2015 will be the year that I really collect as many of the missing books from my collection as possible.  We'll see how that goes.  Recently thanks to the vlogger The Girly Girl Bookworm I've found a source for getting these books for cheap.  Thriftbooks (I'm NOT sponsored or receiving anything in exchange this is an honest review of the service and a chance to share about my finds).


    I got the following from them recently and I am extremely excited by the condition of the books and the fact that shipping is free in the US. After the video was filmed I tried to clean off those tags on the side and it actually ripped a bit of the cover art off. I'm NOT happy about that and want them to put the tags on the back, no one gives a damn about the back barcode bar, the spines are for showing off. If I ruin my book spine that's ok, but you shouldn't do that for me.  UGHHHH that was so frustrating, considering the books came in such pristine condition. (this has since happened on several other books so it's the stickers not the books)

    Paperbackswap is a company I have been using for a few years now and they ave a really great system, you list books you wish to unhaul, you ship them media mail, then when the person receives them they click they have received and you get a point (which has a monetary value of $3.50), each point can then be used to get a book for yourself (you can purchase points however that kinda defeats the purpose of swapping books) .  I have used this system successfully and the books are always in great condition especially because you can specify what covers you want, and even the condition of the book you wish to receive (like from a non smoking household, or without animals things like that).  (I ALSO AM NOT SPONSORED BY PAPERBACKSWAP)

    That's it, I'm so happy with my purchases.  What about you?? Have you ever used either services?? Share down below you experiences.

    Thanks for stopping by

    Monday, May 12, 2014

    #WeNeedDiverseBooks Book #Discussion: #Diversity in Science Fiction

    When I was in high school I made my way up to being the editor of my school's paper.  One of the last articles I worked on for my school paper was a rant about the lack of diversity in out school books, and in my favorite genres.

    Recently due to different articles, op-ed pieces, and readers calling out publishing houses we have once again begun to talk about diversity in books.  Or better yet the lack of diversity in books.

     Today, I'm going to talk about the lack of diversity in science fiction, I used to be a huge scifi fan. I owned and read so many books, eventually I got turned off the genre after reading the thousandth book with no characters of color or if there were any, they were the 'natives who needed to be civilized, or the ones to gain wisdom from".

    Here's a picture I loaded on instagram from my notes in high school.

    This is the full article I wrote
    " Dear Scifi Authors,

    I want you to know, that I SEE you.  In your books you create your 'Utopian' world and almost NEVER include black or minority characters.  Your heroes/heroines are white  and their friends heck even the neighbors are white. Do you not think we notice?? BOOO!!!!!  Yes I get that we write what we know, but seriously you have no minority friends?? No one you can study?? Or ask questions??

    STOP IT, you're creating a new world how about you DIVERSIFY. You're the God here, you're writing the mythology, the pros and the cons of the world, the heroes and the heroines, the villains and the cannon fodder, and even in the world you create where we can replicate human beings, and speak with animals you don't have a brilliant scientist who is black?? An Asian who is good at anything other than the stereotypical subjects of academics?? How about a Native character who isn't the medicine man?? Or healer?? As a teen I hate not having characters I can look to and say yeah I would totally do that!!

    If the tv shows like Star Trek can have minority characters who are amazing as well as diverse in their complexities and their stories.  Why can't you??"

    I wrote this in 1999, y'all that's over fifteen years ago. Well heck that makes me old as heck, I didn't realize that it was so many years ago.  Originally I had written this because I had finished reading Margaret Atwood's "The Handmaid's Tale" and while I enjoyed the story & I hated the way the women where treated I was even more pissed at the blacks and gays were treated.    I mean this wasn't a good world but the few black being portrayed as less than they barely had anything going for them. Why are we always the ones as the oppressed in science fiction??

    For a while it seemed like there was going to be some hope, like things were changing, new trends were coming along and more women were writing books in the genre, I had hope that more minority authors would come along too.  I know the greats like Octavia Bulter existed and of course Tananarive Due, there were few books for young teens to read.  It hasn't changed much since then and so many kids are missing out on a great genre because there isn't anyone that looks like us in the books.

    I personally don't have any kind of solution here. I just know that I'm tired of having to pretend that the character doesn't have blonde hair, or blue eyes. I simply pretend that the character looks like me,  If you have authors to recommend can you do so down below??  I've read Melanie Rawn, Sara Douglass, Barb Hendee, Mercedes Lackley & Margaret Atwood. I also wouldn't be a great reader if I hadn't already exhausted Octavia Bulter's books, as well as Tananarive Due's work as well.  I still love science fiction, just well not as much as romance.

    Name some down below.  What do you think about the lack of diversity in science fiction. What are some of your favorite works of scifi??
    Thanks for being here
    Happy Reading

    Tuesday, May 6, 2014

    Book #Discussion: Diversity In Books & #WeNeedDiverseBooks

    I participated in the #WeNeedDiverseBooks & #WeNeedDiverseAuthors discussion that took place this weekend on twitter.  Did you see it?? Did you participate??   What do you readers feel should have been said??

    As a reader of color, I can tell you I participated because when I was growing up in the 90s I had a greater chance of finding diverse shows, books and greater representation for young black and Latino children than we do now.  Yes, there are more important images of representation now, like the fact that the President of the United States is African American, and even though I might not agree with certain politicians we have a few more Latinos in power than before.  Yet, the diversification of the representation is limited.  Growing up I had Claire Huxtable who was lawyer, a loving wife, a college graduate, a good friend, and an amazing mother, as an example to look to on t.v.  My own mother is a former Linguistics Professor, I grew up on an all women's college, so I always saw women in positions of power and who were educated.  Where are the Claire's today??

    On the Fresh Prince we had one of the first times there was a stay at home mother who was African American, how many times have we seen that since??  On Family Matters, there was a Black cop, his wife. a teacher, and their children, the daughter who was a cheerleader, their son the basketball jock, and their next door neighbor the nerdy kid, who invented all kinds of things, some that made their lives a living hell, but still he was Dexter before Dexter had a laboratory.  We had Living Single, with Maxine, who was a super successful lawyer, Regine who worked in fashion design and purchasing, Kyle who was a successful broker, Khadijah who owned her own magazine, and even Synclaire who worked for cousin but was attempting to break into acting, & Overton, the handyman who takes care of the building.  A Different World (which is now on Hulu if you have never seen it) showed us college life on a fictional co-ed Historical Black College/University  (because traditionally HBCUs tend to be all girls or all boys, in fact many still are).
    courtesy of Wikipedia
    Heck. we had Black, Latino and Asian characters in our cartoons as well, Captain Planet, featured all of these as the Planteers, the children working to save Gaia.
    courtesy of Comic Vine
    Where are the books, and t.v shows that highlight the fact that women of color having been working since we got here?? Where are the books, t.v shows, movies about our Feminists?? I love the movie Iron Jawed Angels; because well it's an important movie for all young women to watch and see what was paid for us to have so many of the freedoms we have now, but even in this movie the importance of Ida B Wells was glossed over, they showed her for all of five minutes, she had three lines and then nothing. No explanation of who the Black woman who walked the line was, no explanation of the repercussions of her action, No, no let's focus only on the white women because only they are feminists.  Let's show the Seneca Falls meeting that launched the Feminists movement in America but let's leave out Sojourner Truth's most important speech "Ain't I A Woman' demanding to know where she fits in.

    Walter Dean Myers wrote a wonderful op editorial discussing how the lack of representing children of color in different positions in books have allowed others to think we can't become these things because they have no knowledge of us doing so.  Even if we only wrote books about famous doctors like Vivien Thomas, chemists like Patricia Bath, inventors like George Washington Carver, astronauts like Mae Jemison, nurses like Mary Seacole, military heroes like the Tuskegee Airmen and writers *pick one, Toni Morrison, Omar Tyree, Octavia Butler, Maya Angelou* we would have a lot of books for young children of color, instead we only have three figures who are being written about extensively, Dr. King, Sojourner Truth and Harriet Tubman.  Where are the books of Malcolm X?? Where are the books that show people of color as more than slaves or Freedom Fighters???  Do you know what HELA cells are?? Do you know who Henrietta Lacks is?? Or how important she is to modern science?? Heck I would even take books about our athletes who have excelled.

    Let's not even the discuss the abysmal landscape that is the romance, science fiction, paranormal, dystopian and even the new adult genres.  Where Black and Latinos only show up as a) the villian b) the Magical Negro, here to help the white protagonist become better at whatever their life's purpose is c) only as half stereotypes or troupes. The half black girl with pretty skin (always said as light coffee au lait, of caramel colored) who says stereotypical things like "you go girl", but doesn't really add anything to the story or even have their own arc of growth.  Never mind the gay flamboyant Latino or Black guy who is there to help her find the perfect shoes, and look her best and give her great advice on finding a man.  When I say "half" I'm pointing out that fact that almost none of them are full black, they are always half black and half white, (not that these children don't exist, or that they don't need representation too,) I'm talking about the fact that they aren't allowed to fully embrace the culture they are on the page to add some color but they aren't fully here to scare you.

    And if you have noticed I haven't even discussed the lack of representation of Native Americans, other than a select few like Geronimo and Sitting Bull or Pocahontas.  Sherman Alexie is always mentioned when discussing Native American writers, can't you think of anyone else??  (Not that I don't love his writing because I do, but who else is there??)  Where are the books that showcase life on the the Reservations?? The good, the bad and the ugly aspects of it.  What about books showing those that don't live on the reservations.  Where are the books discussing the high rate of suicide, the increased lack of employment, yet the increased educational margins of Native women.  Where are the books talking about their inventors, scientists, doctors, spiritual leaders, and tribal traditions??

    We have books with dancing bears, and ballerina mice, but almost no books with Blacks, Latinos, Asians, or Native Americans as the authors, or the protagonists.  How do we not see the problem here??
    Ok, even if we have books being written by Asian authors like Sylvia Day, Julie Kagawa, and Jenny Han, more often than not the covers of their books are white washed.
    Recently book bloggers and book tubers were celebrating the fact that there was an Asian cover model on Jenny Han's latest book To All the Boys I've loved Before.

    Because as you can see, the other covers of her books have white models.  There isn't anything wrong with that, except why is that the default???

    Do you guys remember the kerfuffle that happened when the cast for Hunger Games was published??

    No let me remind you, how hundred of readers took to twitter, tumblr and their blogs to talk about  how much they hated Rue being cast as a black girl *despite the fact that she was written as a black girl* and many even stated that they wouldn't have cried if they had known she was black. Yes you read that right. They wouldn't have cried if they realized a child who died was black. I'm so done.  Here are different articles talking about it.
    Adam says that the pivotal moment in the evolution of Hunger Games Tweets came on or around March 23rd, after he posted a tweet by someone named Alana Paul, a petite brunette who went by the handle @sw4q. Alana’s tweet was not the most offensive or nakedly racist of the bunch (that award could go to Cliff Kigar, who dropped the N-bomb, or to @GagasAlexander, who complained of “some ugly little girl with nappy…hair.”) but perhaps the most telling. “Awkward moment when Rue is some black girl and not the little blonde innocent girl you picture,” she wrote. She cc’ed a friend on the tweet, @EganMcCoy.
    White Until Proven Black from the New Yorker. Image of tweet courtesy of  Jezebel article which you should read as well.  Found Here.

    This isn't an easy topic to discuss, and it won't be solved easily.  But I'm no longer going to not write about it because I'm scared of offending white readers.  I'm going to write about the truth of my reading experience, and that sometimes includes the fact that there are sometimes no books written with me in mind.  And that should be a sad fact for everyone.

    What do you think?? Share in the comments down below. If you have recommendations for books in my genres, of authors of color, please share.  I love erotica, romance, romantic suspense, new adult, and anything paranormal.